SECTION II -FAMILY ISSUES

Promoting Pagan Family Values - Selene SilverWind
Pagan Parenting - Windseeker

Promoting Pagan Family Values - Lammas
By Selene Silverwind
Slvrwind@aol.com

The dog days of summer are upon us. Those days when we all want nothing more than to lounge in our air-conditioned houses watching the summer drift by or sit on shaded porches drinking lemonade and eating popsicles while a giant fan churns the oppressing air, but that's no excuse to slack off on promoting Pagan family values.

Since it is so hot, we don't want any of these activities to be too strenuous. Below are a few simple activities you can do in the shade. The first is making ankle bells. All you need are small round bells you can buy at the craft store and ribbon narrow enough to go through the holes. Slide five or six bells onto each ribbon, tie the ribbons on their ankles, and you're good to go. Now pass out pots, pans, anything else that can serve as a musical instrument and let the kids bang away (you too). Ask them to create a beat that feels like summer to them, slow and heavy or light and carefree. They can tap their feet on the ground to jingle their new bells. Or just wear the ankle bells throughout the day, to bring a little summer joy into you midst.

Children also like to make books. A simple method is to cut plain white sketch paper to size and staple it together. Cut out two pieces of thin cardboard slightly larger than the paper and lay them on top of a piece of old wallpaper cut slightly larger, with enough room in the middle to place the stack of paper upright between them and enough room to close the book. Trace around the cardboard and remove. Mix glue and water to make the glue easier to spread over the wallpaper. Spread the glue inside the traced lines and attach the cardboard. Allow to dry, then tape the outer sides of the stack of paper to the cardboard. Make sure the tape is slack enough to allow the book to fold closed. Glue wallpaper into the inside, covering the cardboard and first and last page, again leaving enough slack to open and close the book and allow to dry.
It's best to do one side at a time. You can also ask the children to pick out a journal from the store and encourage them to draw, write, or make collages in it to express their personal magickal experiences. Once the books are made, make a trip to a nearby natural spot and spread out (in a shady spot). Provide pens, crayons, and whatever else, and ask the children to write or draw whatever they feel from the place.

Now I'm going to propose something a little different from the usual community activity. Given the current political climate, we Pagans are in need of some really good press. International Pagan Pride Day has been set for September 18, 1999. Several events are being planned at the local level. There is probably at least one in your state. Visit http://www.geocities.com/Athens/9802/paganpride.html to locate the local coordinator for your area or to sign up to coordinate an event. Even a little help will be greatly appreciated by the coordinators.

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