SECTION II - FAMILY ISSUES

4. Promoting Pagan Family Values - Selene SilverWind
5. Pagan Parenting - WindSeeker

Promoting Pagan Family Values - Litha
By Selene Silverwind
Slvrwind@aol.com

Summer has arrived at long last. Through April showers and June gloom we have waited, looking forward to the hot days of the season ahead. Most children are about to be released from school for the next three months and eagerly await their freedom. This is a busy period of family vacations, outdoor parties, and summer fun. And it is the perfect time to promote a few Pagan family values.

Crafts are a favorite activity for young children restlessly roaming through the house looking for something to do once their abundant free time has become tedious. Before they have a chance to perch themselves in front of the TV and Playstation for the duration of the summer, distract them with the opportunity to make sand candles. No beach required. But if the beach is available, by all means make this activity part of a day trip. See the next article for detailed instructions on the sand candle creation process. While many children are out of school for the summer, some of them will be participating in day care or summer camp programs that welcome participation from parents. Gather poster paints, cheap brushes, glitter, sparkly beads, feathers, glue, and thick paper plates for sun faces. The children will enjoy a chance to exercise their creative muscles as they paint and decorate the plates after their image of what the face of the sun would look like if it had one. While they wait for the plates to dry, serve lemonade and yellow cupcakes with orange frosting for a snack and explain what the Summer Solstice is. Once the plates are no longer tacky to the touch, add hangers to the back by stapling a length of string on opposite edges of the plate, leaving enough slack to allow the face to be suspended by a single thumbtack. Position the staple so two inches of string lie below it and tie the excess onto the string above the staple to keep the string secure. Another option is to use packing tape to attach a long, thin dowel or unsharpened pencil to the back of the plate to create a stand for garden planting
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This is the perfect time to flaunt the beautiful pay off of your hard labor in your garden with a traditional garden party. Invite neighborhood families and other friends to dress up in their prettiest summer frocks and come for an afternoon frolic with iced tea, lemonade, cucumber sandwiches, and brownies. Any neighborhood children who have made sun faces should bring them and put on a sun parade or dance for the gathered adults. The summer is a time for fun and relaxation, so make the most of it before it fades once more into winter.

Making Sand Candles
By Karyn Finnell

Fill a bucket with damp sand or, if at the beach, dig a hole in the sand until you reach sand that is damp enough so that in no longer caves in. Poke a few holes in the sand with a stick (3 for a cauldron style base or 4, one in each corner). These will become the "legs" of the candle. Wrap a wick around a stick and dangle the wick into the hole with the stick resting on the outside of the hole.

Carefully melt the wax over a fire or stove using a double boiler. An old coffee can in a pot of water serves well as a double boiler and it saves your good pans from becoming ruined and covered with wax. You can color the wax with crayons. Peel the paper completely off the crayon and gently drop it into the melted wax. The more crayon you put in the wax the darker the color will become. Stir gently to make sure the color is well blended in the wax.

Once the wax is melted and the crayon is blended, slowly, so as not to cave in the sand, pour the wax into your sand hole. Let the wax completely harden in the sand. When the wax is fully hardened, dig around the candle and ease it out of the bucket or ground. Lightly dust off excess loose sand, leaving the outer part of the wax covered with sand. If you made legs on your candle it should stand on its own. Other shapes can be made with a child's hand or foot pressed into the sand, or any other object that makes an interesting indentation. For more advanced candle-making, you can press sea shells into the sides of your sand hole before you pour the wax in. They will stick to the wax as it hardens.

Warning: when the wax melts it is VERY VERY hot. Never leave it unattended on a fire or stovetop. Wax also has a tendency to splatter, much like grease, so be careful. You do not have to bring the wax to a rolling boil in order to get it to melt. Take your time and be careful. You will have much more fun if you are safe.

PAGAN PARENTING
by WindSeeker

Summer Solstice, Litha, Midsummer, Gathering Day, Feill-Sheathain:

-longest day of the year, and the shortest night; when the sun reaches his apex in the sky, and the days will now grow shorter as the light begins to wane.
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To Celebrate the Summer Solstice with your young ones, try this;

Earth Puppets
Materials:
Use natural items found in the yard, tape, and glue.

The easiest kind of puppets can be made from a twig. Select a twig that
forks. You now have 2 arms and a handle to hold the puppet with. Find a fallen flower, and tape the stem to the handle for the head. You can also tape the stem of a fallen leaf to the handle for the head. For clothing, wrap a leaf around the handle, and your puppet has natural summer wear.

Another puppet can be made with a pine cone. Glue the pine cone to the
forked twig, for the head. Dried and fresh grass make loads of hair styles, beards, and mustaches. Use seeds or small rocks for eyes, nose, and mouth. Make clothing out of leaves and bonnets out of flower petals or acorn caps.

Use a large box or table for the stage, and enjoy the show.


Treasure Boxes
Materials:
Sturdy cardboard box, natural items for decoration, white glue, med-size paint brush.

This little box is for the youngster to collect "treasured" memories from summer. Start with a large shoe box and lid. Let the child collect some items from the yard, the park, and/or the beach. Glue flat items to the box, and place the non-flat items inside. To give the box a more durable finish, brush on a coat of white glue diluted with water. Encourage the child to tell stories of where the different items came from, or make up stories about the contents.

Wheelbarrow Planter

Materials:
1 plastic detergent scoop, 2 large brightly colored buttons, white
glue, 1 cup potting soil, seeds.

Take the plastic detergent scoop and poke a couple of small holes in
the bottom (adults only!) with a nail or a needle. Let each child pick out two brightly colored buttons for the wheels. Glue wheels onto the sides of the scoop so that it sits at an angle. Once the glue has dried, let the child pour 1/2 cup of potting soil in the scoop, place in a couple of seeds around the sides of the scoop, and pour in the rest of the soil. Slowly add water to the soil until soaked through. Place on small dish in sunny spot. Watch the new life grow from the seeds and spring forth from the soil just as life springs forth from the Goddess.
Litha Spiral Candles
Materials:
Decorating wax strips or preprinted wax logs, plain ball or short pillar candle(s), craft or butter knife.

Have your child choose a couple of colored wax strip combinations. Cut
each strip into 2 pieces 2 3/4" long and on piece that is 2" long. Lay a short length of one color over a longer length of another color and roll them into a tight spiral log, 1/2" in diameter by 11/2" long. When you've got eight logs use the knife (adults or older children) to cut each log into as many slices as you can. Firmly press the wax slices all around the outside of the candle, starting at the base and working up. Continue placing the slices as close together as possible until the whole candle is covered.
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Stories

Here is a site that has lots of stories,
http://www.mylittlecorner.com/wicca/topic8.html
which include such titles as:
East of the Sun and West of the Moon
Gaia
The Green Lady
The Princess and The Golden Shoes
The Maiden Fair and the Fountain Fairy
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Pagan books for kids and families
http://members.aol.com/harmnone/page2/index.htm
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Fun Summertime Recipes!

Peppermint Ice Cream

3 lb. coffee can with plastic cover
1 lb. coffee can with plastic cover
Rock salt
Crushed ice
2 cups whipping cream
1/2 cup sugar
1/2 teaspoon vanilla extract
1/2 teaspoon peppermint extract
Red food coloring
Crushed peppermint stick (about 3 T.)

Place 1 lb. can in center of 3 lb can. Fill 1 lb. can with ice cream ingredients. Layer crushed ice and rock salt around the small 1 lb. can. Cover both with their plastic lids. Sit in a circle on floor and roll the can back and forth for about 15 minutes.
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Apple Volcanoes

-Apple
-peanut butter
-raisins
-knife
-teaspoon.

Cut off top of apple. Using spoon, scoop out core of apple. You and child: Fill apple with peanut butter and top with raisins. Note: If this is to be eaten later, brush apple edges with lemon juice to prevent browning and wrap in foil.
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Dirt in a Cup

-Chocolate pudding
-Oreo cookie crumbs
-Gummy worms

Glasses (clear plastic are best)
Prepare chocolate pudding mix as instructed on package. Fill glasses 3/4 full of pudding. Sprinkle Oreo crumbs on pudding. Stick gummy worms in crumbs. Voila!! Instant cup of dirt with worms to boot!
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Funky Fruits

What you need:

-12 pieces small fruits
-whipped cream
-water, enough to cover fruits
-1/2 cup sugar
-pot
-spoon
-blender

Put all fruits into pot & cover with water. Cook on low heat. Let cook for 45 to 1 hour. When it's finished cooking, add sugar. Cool until @ room temperature. Blend in blender until no lumps remain. Serve topped with whipped cream. Serves 15.
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Mango Madness

What you need:

-1 cup milk
-1 medium mango, peeled & cut
-3 teaspoons honey OR sugar
-lots of ice cubes OR a few ice cubes & 1 scoop vanilla ice cream

Put all ingredients in blender. Blend on high until no lumps remain. Enjoy!
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Outrageous Orange

What you need:

-2 cups o.j.
-3 tablespoons powdered milk
-1 tablespoon corn syrup
-1 tablespoon sugar
-1/2 teaspoon vanilla
-3/4 cups crushed ice

Mix all ingredients in blender. Serve.
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Banana Bonanza

What you need:

-1 ripe banana
-1/2 cup chopped fresh fruit OR drained canned fruit
-1 cup fruit juice
-1 cup flavored yogurt
-dash of nutmeg (optional)

Cut banana into chunks. Place fruit, yogurt, & juice into blender. Blend for 5 seconds. If still chunky, blend for an additional 5 seconds. If not, pour into 2 glasses & top with a dash of nutmeg.
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Camping Recipes:

Hamburger on a Stick

-1 1/2 pounds ground beef
-1 egg
-1/4 cup bread crumbs

Mix the ground beef, egg and bread crumbs together. Take a small amount of the mixture and wrap it around the end of a long stick that has been cleaned. This works best if the meat is about the size of a regular hot dog. Roast over the fire until the meat is done. Serve on a hot dog bun
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The following recipe is one my oldest daughter taught me how to do: her class did a bunch at school one day. The only difference is, that they used the JUMBO chocolate chips and melted in the oven.

Banana Boats

-6 bananas, unpeeled
-chocolate bars, broken in pieces
-1 1/2 cups mini marshmallows peanut butter, (optional)
-heavy duty foil

With a sharp knife, cut a slit down the length of the banana, being careful not to cut all of the way through. Open up the slit a little and stuff with chocolate pieces and marshmallows (and peanut butter if you'd like). Wrap the banana in foil and place it on your campfire coals. Watch closely and check often. Banana boats are done when chocolate and marshmallows are melted. Unwrap and dig in!
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Eggs in a Nest

-1 Servings
-1 piece of bread
-1 egg
-salt and pepper
-butter
-Chopped green onions(optional)
-a circle shaped cookie cutter

First butter both sides of bread and place it in a fryingpan then take the cookie cutter and cut a small circle in the center of the bread.Next crack the egg into the center. Fry on both sides until egg is done and the bread is browned to your liking.Finally sprinkle the green onions and the seasonings of your choice on top and enjoy.
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Walking Salad

-One apple
-Peanut Butter
-Raisins
-Peanuts
-Chocolate Bits

Remove the core from the apple. Stuff with peanut butter and any of the ingredients listed above. Wrap in plastic wrap or ziploc bag. Makes a great hiking snack.
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Herb Recipes.. Use your freshly grown herbs:

Info and Edible Flowers recipes:
http://homecooking.miningco.com/library/weekly/aa052598.htm
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LAVENDER AS FOOD (Info and Recipes)
http://www.lavenderfarms.com/food.htm
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Lemon Balm Lemonade
http://www.creativeseasoning.com/Recipes/FruitDrinks.htm

Serves: 6 Preparation Time: 15 minutes. This is an easy-to-prepare summer drink. The lemon balm and the lemon juice are excellent complements to each other.

7 cups (1.65 liters) water
1 cup (236 ml) lemon juice 1 cup (500 g) sugar
¾ cup (7 g) fresh, minced lemon balm
Combine water, lemon juice, sugar, and minced lemon balm. Allow to chill and steep for at least two hours or overnight. Just before serving, strain out the lemon balm leaves. Serve over ice with a whole lemon balm leaf in each glass.
Note: You can substitute pre-mixed lemonade for the water, lemon juice, and sugar.
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One of my favorite places in the summertime is being in the woods, here are some fun things to do with your kids in the woods.

Summertime Projects
from FamilyFun Magazine

WEB OF LIFE

PROJECT: Playing a game that explores the roles of plants and animals in the forest.
GOAL: To help kids understand the web of forest life.
AGES: 5 to 12.

MATERIALS
Ball of string or yarn
Scissors or jackknife
Plain white stickers
Pen

When you ask kids what a forest is, the usual answer is "a place with lots of trees." This activity, adapted from Joseph Cornell's SHARING NATURE WITH CHILDREN, is designed to show a child how trees work together with other plants and animals to create an interdependent ecosystem. It works best with a group of children, but it can be played with as few as three.

Before you leave for the woods, pack up a ball of string, scissors, stickers and a pen. At an opportune moment during your forest visit, propose that you all play a game. Have the children stand in a circle, and begin by asking them to name a tree that grows in the forest. Give the end of the string to the first child who speaks up. Ask the kids to name an animal that depends on that tree for food or shelter. Now hand the ball of string to the child who suggests an answer, thus creating the first strand of your web of life. Then, see if anyone can name an animal or plant that depends on the first animal, and pass the ball
of string to the child who answers. Continue until each child has answered a question and is holding part of the web of string, thereby representing the plant or creature that he or she named.

To help kids realize how forest inhabitants are interconnected, ask them to imagine that a fire has wiped out all the trees in this particular forest. Have the child representing the tree tug on his end of the string and tell each child who feels a tug to give a tug in turn. Very quickly, each child in the web should feel the impact of the loss of the tree.

To make the web more intricate (and the game more interesting, especially if you are playing with only a few kids), let each child stand for two different members of the web. As the kids suggest ideas, write the names of the animals or plants on the stickers you brought along, and place one sticker on each of the children's hands.

As you play several rounds (roll up the string between each round), encourage the children to entertain more complex connections. Try to get them to build a web that spans the different layers of a forest. (See the Forest Glossary.) For instance, the raccoon lives in the canopy--but feeds on frogs and mice that live in the field layer. Mice live on insects, and insects feed on the rotting wood, new leaves, and fungi of the litter and soil layers. These, in turn, provide nutrients for the trees, which provide shelter for squirrels -- and so the cycle goes.

A COMPETITIVE GAME
Trees and plants must compete for the things they need to survive: sunlight, water and nutrients. To play a game that demonstrates this to kids, you need paper plates (one per player), at least 18 slips of colored paper (six each of blue, yellow and brown), and at least three players, ages five and up.

Scatter the paper plates on the ground roughly 3 feet apart and have each child stand on a plate. The plate then becomes her "roots," and she becomes a tree firmly rooted to that spot. Explain that the slips of colored paper are natural resources: blue slips are water, yellow are sunlight and brown are nutrients. Scatter the slips on the ground evenly around the kids, then yell "Go!" The children must snatch up as many slips as they can--without moving from their plates. When they are done scrambling, ask if they have one of each of the resources necessary for survival. Talk about where trees and plants find the resources they need. What might prevent them from getting what they need?
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ADOPT A TREE

PROJECT: Getting to know a special tree
GOAL: To use all of the senses in exploring and observing a tree
AGES: 6 and up

Kids love blindfold games, and this one is no exception. In an area of the woods with a fair number of trees and not too much underbrush, blindfold your child and spin her around. Taking a circuitous route, walk her to a tree and place her in front of it. Encourage her to feel the texture and irregularities of its bark and to rub her cheek against it. Invite her to smell the tree and to walk slowly around it, feeling with an outstretched hand for trees or plants growing close by. If there are special features of the tree that she is missing, guide her toward them. Be sure she wraps her arms as far around the trunk as she can to get an idea of its size. When she is done exploring, lead her away from the tree by a roundabout path and remove the blindfold. Then, challenge her to find "her" tree. After a few false starts, my daughters each zeroed in on their trees and repeated all the touching, smelling and hugging as they verified that they had found their arboreal friends.

HOW TALL IS YOUR TREE?
To determine how tall your tree is, teach your children naturalist Edward Duensing's "thumb-jumping" trick. If you know your child's approximate height, you need only a straight stick. Have your child stand up against the tree. Step back so you can see the entire tree from top to bottom. Holding the stick vertically and at arm's length, line up the top of the stick with the top of your child's head. Place your thumb at the spot on the stick that lines up with your child's feet. This is your unit of measure. Now "jump" the stick up, so your thumb is lined up with the top of your child's head. Make a mental note of where the top of the stick lines up against the tree, then jump the stick again, so your thumb lines up with that new spot. Continue jumping until you reach the top of the tree. Multiply the number of jumps by the height of your child, and you will have the height of the tree. When we measured my daughter Rachel's tree, we had to "jump" her height 15 1/2 times. She is about 4 feet tall, so we figured her sugar pine was 62 feet tall. Teaching this trick may slow down your hike as the kids measure everything in sight, but it gives them great applied practice in multiplication.

HOW OLD IS YOUR TREE?
A tree's yearly growth depends on natural variables, such as water, sunlight, nutrients and temperature. To determine approximately how old your tree is--without cutting it down to count the growth rings--take a tape measure and measure its girth about 3 feet above the ground. Each circumference inch equals approximately one year of age.

If you have adopted a pine tree, there is another way to determine its age. As Edward Duensing explains in TALKING TO FIREFLIES, SHRINKING THE MOON, pine trees and some other evergreens grow in layers. Each year, a new set of buds grows into branches that look like the spokes of a wheel with the trunk as the hub. If your child can see the top of her tree, she can count the layers of branches down from the top to see how tall the tree was when she was born. To determine the tree's age, she can count all the layers she can distinguish, then look for scars left from low branches that have broken off. Finally, add four years for the period when the tree was a sapling. Remember, this trick doesn't work for all evergreens: Be sure your tree has that layered look before you start.

HEAR A TREE'S HEARTBEAT
For the early spring, when the sap runs, here is another revelation from Joseph Cornell, author of SHARING NATURE WITH CHILDREN: If you listen carefully with a stethoscope, you can hear the "heartbeat" of a tree. Find a thin-barked tree more than 6 inches in diameter and place your stethoscope against its trunk. Be very quiet. Move the stethoscope around until you can hear the crackling, gurgling sound of sap flowing up to the branches.

SHELL PAINTING

MATERIALS
-Seashells (chalkier, white shells work best)
-Jar of freshwater (for rinsing shells and mixing paint)
-Watercolor or acrylic paints and brushes

With rounded frames and smooth, chalklike surfaces that soak up paint, seashells make good palm-size canvases for your children's seascapes. To start, rinse a few shells with freshwater and let them dry in the sun. Your child can paint pictures on the inside of each shell, letting each color dry before adding the next for a crisp picture or letting the colors blend for an abstract splash of color. Set out in the sun until dry.

For more ideas like this, go to Family.com. They are packed full of ideas from Vacation to recipes!

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Some Crafty ideas:

OCEAN IN A JAR

MATERIALS:

-Baby Food Jars
-Hot Glue
-Blue food coloring
-Vegetable Oil
-Seashells and anything else you can find

INSTRUCTIONS:

Combine a few seashells, some blue food coloring, a little veg oil in a
babyfood jar with water. Seal the jar with hot glue The kids shake it to mix the oil and water and then watch what happens

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Instructions for making a corn husk mother are here:
http://paganism.com/ag/crafts/huskma.html
This may be another idea to do on the Summer Solstice.
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Gardening for Kids:
http://www.icangarden.com/kidz.htm
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Curious as to what the Staff here at C&B do in the summer? Well, Ladytoad told me this is what she does:

Summer here in Charleston means a constant battle with the intense subtropical heat and humidity, so much of my summer is spent in the hours AFTER sundown walking the beach, sitting on a pier with the moon shining down on dark waters and listening to the dolphins blowing air as they rise out of the water, meditating, meeting with friends in outdoor restaurants and chatting while sea breezes rattle in the palmettos, listening to frog choruses and night-singing mockingbirds. In summer I become a creature of the night.
ladytoad


Summer for Anni ....

Sounds!
The sounds of the neighborhood as the windows are raised for the season (we do not air condition ... windows are open all season).

Cars ... trains ... children playing ... revving of car engines ... boom boxes ... lawn mowers ... chain saws ... ice cream trucks ... garbage trucks ... barking dogs ... radios ... TV's ... water sprinklers ... sirens ... church bells ... birds ... the snapping of the flag on the pole ... wind chimes ... automobile horns and car alarms ... the clicking of the dogs' paws across the deck.

And as the sun sets ... the absence of sound. Then cricket and frog duets late into the night.

In the Winter the sounds of the neighborhood are muffled by the closed windows. In the Summer all one has to do at any time is close your eyes and "feel" a part of the larger organism of humanity.

One of the advantages of being an Urban Pagan ... listening to the sounds of connectedness!
Anni

Luna shared this:

During the summer I spend as much time as I can at Zipple Bay State Park on the shore of Lake O' the Woods. I pack a lunch and jug of the cool spring water our little town is blessed to have as it's source of water, and head out for the afternoon to walk along the sandy beach between forest and lake. I have a favorite place, a big rock on the beach. When I go there I feel especially close to the Mother. I go there to just dream or when I'm feeling great joy, when I feel pain, anytime I need to spend some time in thought, prayer and
meditation. I often cast a circle during my time there and I always returned with a sense of balance. There I am surrounded by the elements at once. I am grounded, uplifted, renewed, and empowered by: the rock upon which I sit, the ever present wind off the big lake, the lake itself, and the bright sun warming my back. What a blessing this place has been in my life!
Luna


and BabooKyra,

I teach "Earth Journeys" at a very wealthy, white bread (no, make that
gourmet whole grain bread) childrens' camp for 9 weeks.

The fact that they keep asking me back is a total mystery to me. This will be my fifth year there.

I have 500 kids in two hours blocks of 25 kids each.

We hike in the woods where we identify plants and animals and learn about their habits and properties; I tell them stories about Artemis and Orion and Baba Yaga; Little Jumping Mouse and How Squirrel Rescued Father Sun. We sing icky songs about guts and worms. We visit a wild beehive and learn to hum to the bees so they won't get scared and sting us.

We chant, drum, make medicine rattles and shields; we gather leaves and flowers and make masks and dream pillows; we build volcanoes out of dirt, decorate them with branches, stones and flowers, and make them erupt with vinegar and baking soda; and we blow bubbles of all sizes with wire hangers, toilet paper rolls, string and our hands.

We take bags of powdered sugar into the woods and draw huge labyrinths in the clearings. We walk through them, and then the kids run, jump, and skip all over them. We erase them when we leave.

I take them to a small waterfall with a pool under it, and they wade in up to their waists. They get to experience wild water, with living things swimming in it and living in the mud below. We hike to a cattail forest, and powder ourselves gold with cattail pollen.

I am allow total autonomy, and the only time I've gotten negative feedback is when I let the kids paint themselves with marking pens, and some of the colors didn't come off for a week or so.

I have never had so much fun in my life.
And they pay me for this.
Blessed Be, BabooKyra

and Selene,

During the summer I go about my daily life as usual, but I spend the entire time looking forward to the Lammas Fair camp-out hosted by my former Circle. It's a weekend getaway in the Angeles National Forest with games, rituals, drum jams, and more. I love it and every year I leave looking forward to my return the following year. One year I had the honor of performing the duties of High Priestess for the main ritual. I don't recall most of the ritual itself. When the Goddess filled me, she seemed to take over. I ran through most of the ritual easily, but somehow detached. Still, it was a mystical experience for me that I have not yet found a way to express. The following year a friend and I led the opening ritual, which was wonderful, but not
quite the same. I also like to take a hike every year, very brief, but a tough one nonetheless, up a small hill to a peak overlooking the grounds and the mountains on the other side. Even from such a height I can't see a hint of Los Angeles, and that is the real thing I look forward to every summer. Getting out of this city and into the mountains to enjoy fresh clean air, being a part of nature, and relaxing fun to cure my frazzled brain. Then I come back home and wait for next year.
Selene Silverwind


Dor answered,

Hi Windseeker
I do pretty much the same things in summer that I do in winter but more of them. I walk the beaches (winter it is wild and cold -- summer it is crowded and hot), I walk the woods (winter it is quiet and nice for meditating -- summer you revel in the bounty of the mother), I sit out back in the day and in the night (winter it is cold but serene -- summer it is hot and full of insects and noises), driving for pleasure or visiting friends (winter you contend with the weather -- summer you contend with traffic from holidayers), during the summer I can garden outside, during the winter I have to be content with my indoor plants. So I do the same things year round just different ways to enjoy them and in the summer it is easier to do some things more often. Though I love the beach in the winter it is too cold to do very often. I love walking in the woods during the winter -- no insects and quiet but the summer it is full of life as everything blossoms and grows, my heart
opens to all the growing bounty of nature. I can sit outside in my backyard all year but it is cold and wet in the winter and during the summer I can listen to the crickets and frogs, and be eaten by the mosquitos :-). When I take a drive in the winter I have to be careful of the weather but in the summer I can open the windows to smell the fresh air and just drive -- especially on the back roads where you don't get as much traffic. I love my garden in the summer -- fresh vegetables growing and pretty flowers with wonderful smells and herbs to use in cooking and such. So I do the same things all year round just in different ways and degrees.....and love each for its variety.
Blessings and Love
Dor

Am me, WindSeeker,

I love the summer!! I love the heat and the bright sun and long days! Summer is when you see the beauty of the earth. I like to go out with the girls and collect some of the natural decorations the earth offers. Already got tons of rocks from the river's shore.. using them for my flowers and herbs...pine cones, pussy willows, wildflowers etc etc etc! Summer time is family time: school is out and I get to spend more time with the girls. We love to go to the beach and swim in the cool waters of the north. I love the smells of summer time: suntan lotion, fresh cut lawns, flowers of all types, BBQ's, I enjoy BBQing... everyday!! Another thing I love is the town festival, tons of entertainment, but my fave is the midway, with all those rides!!! Hehehe I also love to go to garage sales...always amazes at the deals I get...already got a gas BBQ for 10 bucks. 2 tenspeeds and 2 kids bikes, indoor outdoor grill, plant pots, tons of good quality clothes etc etc. Laying in the sun, riding bikes, gardening, people watching,rain, thunderstorms, feeling free, new agenda, new outlook... Summer is when you shed the wintertime skin and attitude into a whole new atmosphere and world!
It is a wonderful feeling...


(I thank all those who supplied the information and recipes, you know who you are!!)